
Imagine you can see spirits of people's passed loved ones. This can happen any time and any place. Then let's say you are out and about, just enjoying a dinner with friends, or sitting around your favorite hangout having a cup of coffee or a beer. (Though drunken stupor is not factored into this story you're supposed to be imagining).
You're there...minding your own business and it becomes clear to you that someone's relative or friend, wholly in spirit, is there. You notice them. They notice that you notice them. It's not common they have someone notice them. So then it's all over...they are insisting you pass along a message to their living loved one.
Question: Do you do it?
Do you pass along the message or do you let it slide?
Do you interrupt a perfect stranger, also out and about minding his or her own business, to tell them something they may or may not appreciate?
Do you disappoint the spirit who may have only this one chance to say what they need to have said?
Do you say something, just because you can (nice ego, btw), even if it's not crucial?
What if it's a friend you're out with? Do you tell them? Even if they are not asking to be told?
Do you tell some of the people some of the time; or tell none of the people all of the time? How would you choose which ones give/get their messages and which ones don't then?
What are the rules of "engagement", do you suppose?
If you decide to tell and you do approach them, how do you present yourself, or the information itself?
As a whole, people don't like to talk openly about death. Do you suppose they're more open to talk about life after death?
These questions and more are in constant debate among people like us. I've known people who have have done, and who have not done, all of the above. Maybe it's best if we set our own "rules" personally, individually, since it's the individual who will have to take responsibility for their choice to tell, or not to tell.
For me, there is a lot to be said for a person who is going to receive the message, that they will ask or seek out the resource when they are ready. But aren't there always exceptions? And just maybe, each situation is as different as the people involved, so each situation ought to be gauged and considered thoughtfully on it's own merit, before either just jumping head first in to tell things to people who may not be in a good place (emotionally, spirititually, or otherwise), or conversely, just altogether walking away from the situation and opportunity to reunite the two people.
What do you think?
If you were that complete stranger or friend, what would YOU want?